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Appreciating the Details

Smack in the middle of August, I thought I was about to be suddenly uprooted and relocated to another state. My husband had received a job offer we didn't think his current employer would match. We got the offer on a Friday night, and the job was to start three weeks later.

Since we didn't have much time, I spent the weekend packing the house and taking mental inventory of the things I would miss. That Sunday, I went running in the woods. Sunlight streamed through leaves and dappled the path. I decided to turn onto a trail that had always intrigued me but I'd never followed. "When will I have the chance again?" I asked myself.

The trail meandered through the trees, over a brook, and finally emerged on a back country road. I decided to keep going. Soon I found myself on top of a ridge overlooking the surrounding valley. Shrouded in soft fog, the edges of the horizon blurred. The hillsides were tumbling shades of green, fading to a tinge of blue in the distance. The world was utterly beautiful.

On Monday, a counter-offer startled us into eighteen hours of decision-making. In the end, it was too close to call. We flipped a coin.

Now that we're staying, I find the experience bestowed upon me a whole new appreciation for the details of my familiar surroundings. I notice individual leaves, the smell of morning breezes, opportunities to get involved in my community. Why did this happen? Because in thinking I had little time left for these details, I afforded myself the luxury of lifting my head to notice them.

This month, carve out a morning or afternoon to wander your neighborhood, follow a path you've always wondered about, or examine the bark of the tree outside your window. Share your story!


Learning C.P.R. for Your C.A.R.

If you don't know which jumper cable goes where, you're not alone. You'd be amazed at the number of women -- and men, for that matter -- who've never changed a tire and aren't sure where to check their car's oil, not to mention other vital fluids. This is one of those things that can save not only your money and time, but an awful lot of stress. Despite the proliferation of cell phones, one of the top concerns when it comes to driving any distance alone -- especially for women -- is "What if I get a flat?"

Hey, if you know how to throw on the spare, you not only save the hour waiting for roadside service to show up (before you then have to drive to a gas station anyway), you also aren't relying on cell phone coverage or the kindness of strangers to bail you out. Another bonus of knowing a thing or two about your vehicle: you can assure yourself before your road trip that fluid levels are topped off -- so your car won't suddenly overheat on the side of an empty stretch of highway.

Learning the basics is simple, and makes for a great community-building activity. Approach your friendly local service station manager and ask if she'd be interested in setting up a small two- or three-hour class. Call it "Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Your Car But Were Afraid to Ask..." or something equally witty. Ask how much, if anything, she'd charge participants (keeping in mind that it's great PR for her business). Keep the class size small so each person can get a quick introduction to his or her own vehicle's particulars ("Here's where the jack hides, there's your dip stick...").

Hang up a sign in the local library. Invite your friends and coworkers. Tell your neighbors. Have fun!


Going Virtual : Is Telework for You?

This is the first of a multi-part series on Going Virtual. If you've ever thought about joining the thousands of people who've made working from home part of their daily lives, these articles will guide you through some of the technology, paradigm shifts, and practical considerations that can make it possible in your own life.

Did you as a child promise yourself you'd never work in a cubicle? Have you ever daydreamed about working from home on a regular basis? Freedom from office life isn't a far-flung fantasy. Telephones, computers, fax machines, Internet access, and pagers have made mobile life not only possible, but practical. Advances such as wireless technology, the spread of cellular networks, and products like PDAs (personal digital assistants) and SmartPhones are rapidly transforming the professional landscape...

Read the complete article on my web site.



"Tell me what you pay attention to and I will tell you who you are."

- José Ortega y Gasset

 

Top 5 Ideas to Inspire You This Month

  1. Interview your parents (or grandparents!) about their childhood
  2. Start a journal -- decorate the cover with a fantastic collage
  3. Learn to decorate cakes like a pro (now make one for your neighbor!)
  4. Save up enough money to take three months off and do something you've always wanted to do "when there's time"
  5. Go outside, lie down on the grass, and see how many insects you can count


"I know that I am comfortable, at peace, and myself. I know that this is a victory or an outrage. Am I enjoying this moment? I know of it, perhaps that is enough."

- Sybille Bedford
A Visit to Don Otavio: A Mexican Journey

 

7 Things to Do Before I Die

  1. Learn to speak at least three foreign languages fluently
  2. Visit Antarctica
  3. Travel by train across China, Mongolia, and Russia
  4. Learn to dance in west Africa
  5. Build an eco-friendly house
  6. Fly across the country in a hot air balloon
  7. Spend a year playing flute and creating watercolors by the ocean

What's on YOUR wish list? What would you regret not having done?

Send me your ideas!

What's New?

Travel workshop:
Spread the word! My next travel workshop "Get Going! Discover and Live Your Travel Dreams" is scheduled for October 8, 6:30 - 9:30 pm, at Rochester Info Courses. Register at www.infocourses.com.

To learn more about the workshop, look under their "Featured Courses" section, or visit www.judywolf.com/workshops.htm. Want to bring the workshop to your neck of the woods? Let's chat!

Writing workshop:
Have you got a story to tell? Autobiography is a powerful and challenging medium and uses many of the same fundamentals as creative writing. After all, a good story comes not just from the content, but from how you choose to write it. "Writing For Your Life" will discuss some of the techniques used to create compelling fiction, and examine how you can apply those tools to your own life stories. Whether you're capturing family history, interested in enhancing your journal writing, or working on creative nonfiction essays, this course will help hone your skills.

Tuesdays from 7 - 9 p.m., November 5, 12, 19 at the Kirkland Arts Center. To register, call 315-853-8871.


About the author:

Judy Wolf is a world traveler, freelance writer, speaker, and whitewater kayak instructor. She's taken numerous, extended solo journeys around the world, traveling by foot, bus, jeep, camel, truck, boat, train, plane, elephant, and bicycle to over 30 countries on five continents. She currently lives in upstate New York with her husband and border collie, where she's working on a book-length travel narrative about her most recent adventures…that is, when she's not plunging off waterfalls or entertaining the dog.

Learn more at www.judywolf.com.


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